Do Eligable Gay Bachelors Exist?

Fizz · One foot out of Narnia

Do Eligable Gay Bachelors Exist?

JohnK · Pieces of me you've never seen

Hey Fizz darling!

We are doing speed dating at the begininng of next semester :) which should be fun.

I have been single for almost a year now and would like someone serious :) But alas everyone I meet is either a nut job, taken or just wants a quick boff.

Or they find me hideously unattractive and would rather stick needles in their eyes than go near me.

Oh well hey x

Arsecandle · Admin Bitch

I'm soooooooo tired of dating. >_<

What john said. Apart from the fact i've been single since i was conceived :D

Fizz · One foot out of Narnia

Hey Arsecandle,

Since i have been aloof from the LGBT i have no clue who the fraggle rock you are!!! Please divulge said information with a name. Thankya.

Fizz xxx

richardyoung71 · *Censored*

Well I was in a relationship, and didnt want it :s I dont think I fall into any of your categories either :p

Arsecandle · Admin Bitch

Name's Steve. I just moved here. I am not a student and I work in the ARC for fun.

Fizz · One foot out of Narnia

Rich,

It's not about categorization, it's all about finding eligible men (and or women) that are dateable. Given Homosexuals are a minority, there minority is further dwindled by the even smaller pickings from a very limited stock.

Fizz x

richardyoung71 · *Censored*

Well you're the one who put ppl in categories! I'm just sying there's plenty of other people who dont fit into your definitions. Maybe you're just looking in the wrong places!

Fizz · One foot out of Narnia

Hey Rich,

I'm not putting anyone into any category....merley summarizing my experience, to which JohnK agrees to, to some degree. Again its not about categorizing! As for looking in the wrong places i've lived in Chicago to India, I've be been around the world and back, i've looked high and low. It's just what i have found and experienced (notice i am saying I have experienced and not all gays are blah blah blah). Again what i have experienced does in no way account for everbody. However my topic for discussion is why is it so hard to find a good decent eligible guy.....................

Cheers

Fizz x

Arsecandle · Admin Bitch

All men do is lie and sleep.

richardyoung71 · *Censored*

I'll give you some numbers Fizz - lemme find my little black book...

Fizz · One foot out of Narnia

Rich!

You Young ScallyWag, i don't need or require any numbers thank you, i'm happy as i am!

Cheers for thought.

Fabio Fizz xxx

richardyoung71 · *Censored*

If you dont want my sloppy seconds, who will?!

Fizz · One foot out of Narnia

Rich,

Anyone in the market to get a few STI's i should imagine.

Fizz xxx

richardyoung71 · *Censored*

You can't say that! I'm sure there's a rule somewhere about insulting Committee Members!

yongee · Forum Addict

oh dear the friendly forum turned into a bit of a ladies wrestling ring!

i kno this is overly said but i think its true, love comes when you least expect it, not because thats the force of nature,

but when you are seeking for it, you tend to be very judgemental towards everyone you meet, hence less open minded you will be.

also, dont think looking for eligible men in a club or places like that would particularly be a good idea, dont think hardly any men look for relationships in such places, they wanna hav fun!

id say, stop striving to be in an exclusive relationship, when its right it will come, but for now, enjoy dating! datings fun too.

ChipsAndLube · Bertha, lovely Bertha, you are a lovely machine.

i'll happily take your sloppy seconds x

AliceH · Butter Me Up!

Oh, so I'm not good enough for you, but you'll happily take Rich's sloppy seconds?!

Right now, my problem is that I'm finding I'd quite like a boyfriend for the first time in my life, but where the heck would I go to meet men? I'm unlikely to form a lasting relationship from someone I pull in a nightclub (and let's face it, nobody would pull me in a nightclub anyway) but the only men I meet are those in the LGBT or the kind of men whose eyes light up the moment they realise I'm inexperienced and hence are only after one thing.

And I won't get started on the stereotypes some women have of bisexuals, or I'll be here all day.

Speed dating it is, then! Preferably with a bag over my head...

ChallengeTheMighty · Bingo Whore

quote:
Originally posted by: JohnK
"
Or they find me hideously unattractive and would rather stick needles in their eyes than go near me.

"

now that's not true, is it, john?

have more confidence in yourself.

love from a nut job x

-- Edited by ChallengeTheMighty at 00:34, 2005-05-03

AliceH · Butter Me Up!

You know how gorgeous I think you are, John. I just wish telling you that would change the way you felt about yourself, because we all think you're fantastic and hate the fact you can't see what a great guy you are.

</sappiness over>

EmilyL · Hallo, My Name's Goody

My John, you are a diamond so there.xx

saxyboy · Big Gay Al

quote:
Originally posted by: yongee
"oh

i kno this is overly said but i think its true, love comes when you least expect it, not because thats the force of nature,

"

That's the spirt. I found me loveli N.Irish fella when i was in a Aunti relationship mode. and he's just amazing! I feel well lucky. (sorry if i sound like i'm rubbing it in, i promise i aint)

There are many gay guys who don't seem to be up 4 much but men and committment!! difficult issue! me girl housemates can vouch for that! Think its all about the testoserone!
You're perfect partrners are there and awatin, they'll turn up in 'utmost unseemly unlikely of places' (qote from little shop of horrors!!

x

Adam · *Censored*

quote:
Originally posted by: saxyboy
"

That's the spirt. I found me loveli N.Irish fella when i was in a Aunti relationship mode. and he's just amazing! I feel well lucky. (sorry if i sound like i'm rubbing it in, i promise i aint)

There are many gay guys who don't seem to be up 4 much but men and committment!! difficult issue! me girl housemates can vouch for that! Think its all about the testoserone!
You're perfect partrners are there and awatin, they'll turn up in 'utmost unseemly unlikely of places' (qote from little shop of horrors!!

x"

Yes but if you are going to do that, you might just end up witha mean green mother from outer space...

Fizz · One foot out of Narnia

well

is it better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?
what do people reckon? is the heartache after a breakup worth it? feeling unbearable, and the fact that it takes a very long time to re-cuperate if at all just adds to the complexities me thinks.........

what do u lot think?

fizz xxx

saxyboy · Big Gay Al

quote:
Originally posted by: Adam
"

Yes but if you are going to do that, you might just end up witha mean green mother from outer space..."

lol

saxyboy · Big Gay Al

deffo better to have loved and lost than never loved!!!!

watchin Cold Mountain made me agree so much with that one!!

it's sooo sad

AliceH · Butter Me Up!

No, I think I'd actually rather have never loved.

inlowercase · I caught you a delicious bass.

i think that of all the men that i have ever loved not one has managed to reach my expectations of them. i think that the thing that you have to do is not have expectations when going into a relationship. that way you wont be dissaponted!

chemicalfears · Queen of Quips

hmm.

and this is the reason i am now celibate dears.

at least with celibacy, your hand will always love you xxx

me

richardyoung71 · *Censored*

Even without celibacy, your hand still loves you. Trust me.

AliceH · Butter Me Up!

I am really worried about you, Richard. Stay away from the Cillit Bang and don't even think about eating mustard from paper plates.

souljacker · Posting Addict

sound advice alice

falafel · Gay Lord

My, this is a fast growing thread.

Are people feeling ronery?

ps, I think it's unfair to assume that all attractive men are pretentious and arrogant. Although I must admit that more often than not that's why I explain away their never wanting to talk to me.

-- Edited by falafel at 19:32, 2005-05-03

chemicalfears · Queen of Quips

extremery ronery sam, but hey, my desire to get out of britain immediately outweights that so im fine, lol.

me
xxx

richardyoung71 · *Censored*

Ronery?

chemicalfears · Queen of Quips

think kim jong-il from team america, and you'll understand rich xxx

me

richardyoung71 · *Censored*

I typed it into google, and thats what i thought. Anyway, no I'm not ronery

JohnK · Pieces of me you've never seen

quote:
Originally posted by: falafel
"My, this is a fast growing thread.

Are people feeling ronery?

ps, I think it's unfair to assume that all attractive men are pretentious and arrogant. Although I must admit that more often than not that's why I explain away their never wanting to talk to me.-- Edited by falafel at 19:32, 2005-05-03"

No your just ugly Sam.

*ahem*

indie_hunk · Guru of the Gay

Physically attractive men can be arrogant cuz bunch of shallow, weird + desperate guys throw themselves to attractive guys all the time. Who wouldn't be arrogant if guys fight over them and all they have to do is smile?

Arsecandle · Admin Bitch

Hey tell me how great i am too!

richardyoung71 · *Censored*

You're great.

AliceH · Butter Me Up!

quote:
Originally posted by: indie_hunk
"Physically attractive men can be arrogant cuz bunch of shallow, weird + desperate guys throw themselves to attractive guys all the time. Who wouldn't be arrogant if guys fight over them and all they have to do is smile?

"

If you have low self-esteem, people throwing themselves at you won't change your poor self-image. Ironically, my experiences have sometimes shown me that the most arrogant people are not necessarily the most physically attractive.

Arsecandle · Admin Bitch

I've found even the most arrogant of people have their own wonderful insecurities. People are great :D

Thanks Rich :D You too!

falafel · Gay Lord

quote:
Originally posted by: indie_hunk
"Physically attractive men can be arrogant cuz bunch of shallow, weird + desperate guys throw themselves to attractive guys all the time. Who wouldn't be arrogant if guys fight over them and all they have to do is smile?

"

I think Cory needs some Happy Pills...

Arsecandle · Admin Bitch

How does going after a physically attractive guy make someone weird and or desperate? Shallow yes. Don't you just love shallow people :D Like guys just interested in using you for sex........: /

richardyoung71 · *Censored*

Liking someone fit doesnt necessarily make you shallow either! Not unless that's your only reason for liking them I spose

Adam · *Censored*

quote:
Originally posted by: Arsecandle
"How does going after a physically attractive guy make someone weird and or desperate? Shallow yes. Don't you just love shallow people :D Like guys just interested in using you for sex........: /

"

Nobody ever tries to use me for sex! - what is wrong with me?

There is nothign wrong with wanting a fit guy, lets face it, most relationships begin because 2 people fancy each other. It wont keep them together, but it will get them together

richardyoung71 · *Censored*

And lets face it, it's the getting together bit thats most fun!

Arsecandle · Admin Bitch

Maybe it's because you are wearing hats and bracelets made out of newspaper Adam?

It's not a nice thing anyway, so you aren't missing out!

Fancying someone is wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AliceH · Butter Me Up!

quote:
Originally posted by: Adam
"
There is nothign wrong with wanting a fit guy, lets face it, most relationships begin because 2 people fancy each other. It wont keep them together, but it will get them together"

True. Note that 'fit' is pretty subjective, though. One person's 'fit' guy might be another person's number one munter.

And the reason nobody offers to use you for sex, Adam, is because Phil would beat the crap out of anyone who offered.