basically, iīve met this guy, and weīre having a casual relationship, ie, talking and playing. now, the problem is that my straight flatmate doesnīt want to be anywhere near our flat if i have a bloke round.
now obviously iīm not some evil cvnt, i wonīt do the nasty if my flatmate is in the flat too. the thing is, he says heīd say the same to anybody, gay or straight (about the not having people round), but i feel like i shouldnīt have to sacrifice my personal life just because he feels uncomfortable with it...am i just being a pr1ck? i really need advice, cos itīs starting to get to me...
sash x
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sash, do whatever you want as long as you are discrete. you pay the rent too, it's just as much your place as it is his. life's stressful enough without worrying about what you are allowed to do in YOUR space.
yes steve, with lego....lol (maybe thatīs why they advise that little kids shouldnīt stick em in their mouths??)
thanks steve, and you are absolutely right. i donīt wanna cause **** with my flatmate, but equally, i wouldnīt even bat an eyelid if he was having his way with some buxom wench from the munich beer halls in our flat...itīs just not the kind of stuff that bothers me!
iīm just really fvcked off right now. i might stop moaning, sack work early, and go for a wander in the city park..
keep having fun kids, you deserve it!!!
sash x
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have a go back, nut him & have as much kinky/dirty sex as loud as possible. Don't let any1 tell u that u can't have ppl round, end of the day u pay rent & what goes on in ur room is ur business, not his, he can **** rite off
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I would say its all about compromise and respect, I don't care what my housemagtes do with respective partners I just don't want to hear it. This is why I never bring a guy back to mine, not because my housemates would mind but because I tend to shout a lot. Woke up the 60 year old next door neighbours at my last guys place and the walls were thicker than in my house.
Okay, there's always a limit to the noise level, but does he never have sex? What about your other flatmates? Do they never get laid? And honestly, where do they expect you to have sex? In the uni. bathroom?
I think you've got right to moan and groan in your room
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its true, ur room, ur privacy. Just dont pull really loud chavs who drown out ur music on full volume. I made that mistake last year n woke my whole block up
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LUU honarary life member - Awarded 2006 // LGBT Assembly Mentor 2006 -Onwards.
Contact me at nicturner_85@hotmail.com
