I don't know if one is allowed to reply without being a committee member but no-one seems to be answering this. Naturally, feel free to remove this if I'm not permitting to answer.
A gaff is a thing to put their dangly bits in and then tuck them out of the way so there's no embarrassing lumps visible.
Yes, there are other trans people in the society. Me, for one. But you have to reply anonymously in here, I think, so I can't tell you who I am and I don't know who *you* are ... faintly ridiculous, I feel.
Hey peeps, if you want to introduce yourself Hannah has set up a thread in the chat section which I think is going quite well. Thanks for the reply by the way! x