my bf is cheating on me iv known for a while but when i broach the subject he simply gives me an excuse like if you think that then you should just go never actually answering the question. any way fact is i still love him so so much hes my world.
some frineds think i should dump him but im not sure if thats more because those friends are single and felt i was more fun when i was too.
they have commented that i look run down dont bother with my appreaence and that im always tired
what i need to know is do i stay with him or do i get shot and try to put my life back together
well it sounds like this is starting to affect you physically as well as emotionally if it is interrupting ur sleep. With things like this is always relative to the couple involved. My advice would be to firstly have a frank discussion with ur boyfriend if u are this sure that he's being unfaithful then show him the evidence out right and tell him what u think and how its affecting u. If he really does care for you then if ur wrong about ur assumptions then he'd want to put ur mind at ease. His replies arent surprising because if ur right then he's trying to hide it but if ur wrong then he'd be feeling offended. Talk to him and tell him why u think this and how its affecting u and that u need an answer from him. I'd also advise u to maybe check out the student counselling centre for someone to talk to aswell - its a great and free service provided by the university. In the end you have to do whats going to make YOU happy and unfortunately nobody can decide that but you.
good luck and feel free to post other comments if u need to
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If ur ran down and tired from the strain of the relationship and things aren't improving just give it up for your health. Friends are also pretty damn honest and look out for you, if they are all saying get shot I would. If the lad is cheating on you don't put up with it, be more than a doormat, get rid of the ****, you deserve better.
The way your bf avoids answering the question and challenges you to leave if you don't like it shows that he knows you're reluctant to chuck him, and is taking advantage of that fact. Be strong, dump the idiot and find someone better - there's plenty out there.
