I am really upset, there is another guy that i can just tell does not like me at all and who i think bitch's about me all the time, when they them self's really are in no way perfect. He even accused me of stealing his boyfriend! How do you deal with t.w.a.t.s like this??
well as tacky as it sounds i think the best way to deal with it is just ignore him. from what u've said it sounds like he's acting quite childishly. if its bothering u that much then talk to him about it and ask him why he bitches bout u and what he doesnt like about u. most of these cases, in my experience, are just down to silly gossip escalating out of control so maybe it'll give u a chance to clear the air :)
alternatively just ignore him outright. if u dont let him get to u then he wont. he'll just be some other random guy spouting crap :)
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