im going out of my mind...a few months ago, i went out and got really drunk in queens...i ended up meeting a guy and we had oral sex...
he also put his penis inside my arse for like 10 seconds (unprotected) before i stopped him..he didnt ejaculate in me..
i know about precome and i think he had a bit on his penis while i was sucking him off, however when he put his dick in me, it was covered with my saliva and had been out in the open for a few minutes...
he said he was clean because his boyfirend just got tested however i am unsure...
is it certain that ive got HIV, if he had it....
i am really scared, too scared and i cant work...i am going to get tested but im going crazy
I really urge you to go and get tested as soon as possible- make it a priority. The sooner you do it, the sooner your mind can be put to rest, and if something is up, the sooner something can be done about it.
If you're not already aware of where you can go, here's a link to a page that lets you know what needs to be done: http://www.leedssexualhealth.com/sti-testing
It is not certain that you have HIV if the guy did have it, but you cannot rule it out completely. Please get checked, as soon as possible!
Just because someone's "boyfriend" has had a test does not make them HIV negative, or negative for anything else I.e. chlamydia gonorrhoea etc. etc. so it was a pretty stupid an uncaring thing for him to say!
The chances of you having HIV are very very small, trust me on this!
If you cant work, go and get a test, they are free (good old NHS) the people at the clinic are very nice indeed, and its seriously doubtful you have HIV from what you said, but if you are still sexually active and feel that you might have something then you don't want to go spreading it...do you!.
P.S.
Next time someone tries to put their **** in you unprotected.....tell them to go fvck themselves and leave, as its not worth it EVER!!!!
