hooo, so I've just discovered that two of my exes are now going out and I feel a bit knocked for six! It's such an odd situation as well though, cos part of the reason why I split up with one of them was to be with the other. But during my whole undecided as to what to do phase, the girl I was currently with somehow randomly started talking to the next on the internet. Nothing really happened with me and the next girl (just kissing for a couple of weeks, then she told me she was still hung up on her ex) and we became good friends. Then my two exes became good friends over time and it's finally come to this! It's just... I can't believe it! What?!?!? lol By the way, i have to point out that the first girl was my first ever girlfriend, and we were together over two years, so it is rather significant. Or is it? What does anyone else think? Oh and it was around this time of year I got with her! haha What craziness!! x
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i think its to do with the reference to the female nether regions. same reason u cant say c0ck. and emily u could always look at it this way, neither one was good enough for u and so now they've found each other. taking the arrogant high road is always good
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I think, there was a reason you didn't want to be with them, and so you've got to stick to that choice, and remember why when they start seeing other people. It's always hard to see/hear that your ex is with someone else, you think they should always be yours?!
I still feel jealous knowing that my ex (who i haven't been with over a year, and i cheated on) has now got together with omeone and seems quite happy! End of day, i was the idiot who messed it all up!
Jut gotta grin an bear it i think (spelling?!)
Be single... it's fun... after you get over the i can't be single, it kills me, time.. x
Just amuse ur self by placing bets on how long they r gonna last, if u make a joke out of it in ya head ur more likely 2 laugh bout it n not let it wind u up/get u down. At end of the day ex's r ex's for a reason, either it simply just wernt workin, sum1 messed it up or they wernt good enough for u.
Not all doom n gloom tho, so u might not be with sum1 n they r seeming 2b happy, but u've got freedom 2 do wot u want, where u want wi who u want, a cheaper xmas cos u aint havin 2 buy 4 another half (they r never cheap 2 buy 4), the whole of ya bed 2 urself - sometimes its good 2b greedy, its christmas which means drinking xmas parties & mistletoe... EXPLOIT IT! Ur phone bill suddenly costs less for a while which is ace & u don't have to deal with all the little insecurities, annoyances, disagreements n crappy sides of a relationship.
It might be cos ur missin havin sum1, so ur thinkin back 2 all the good bits of relationships n ppl u've been wi so u end up missin them, try n remember the not so good it keeps things real. Or occassionally & this has happened 2 me b4, its cos u ended it wi 1 for the other, the other then blew u out n went off wi the 1 u ended it wi... there's the whole kinda rejection thing, kinda followed by regret for givin up sum1 for sum1 who screwed ya over, then the major kinda annoyance/jealousy that ur ex has got wi the person u left em 4, not to mention all the 'what if?' questions & further anooyance at seeing them together.
Simpleist thing, just avoid them a little bit, kick back n have a laugh wi mates, enjoy the freedom, then go on the pull & slag it around abit, have fun! :o)
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Well I'd been with Charlotte for about a year since the whole shenanigans with those two exes, so it's not like it's still raw really, but I guess kinda like what Laura says. Though I don't think I'm jealous... I dunno it's just a weird feeling. I'm gonna see the one I was with for two years next week for a proper catchup, cos I don't really know what's been going on with her for ages. I don't know.
Things post-breakup with Charlotte seem to be going ok too. Again, its a bit odd that the rules have changed slightly, but its the way it has to be. And I have something pretty cool to keep my mind off missing the good relationship parts...
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cool. Must have misread it, I thought u wer on bout recent ex's, ah well :o)
Glad alls going well anyhow :o) God am sooooooooooooo bored
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Shopping's a good idea. I've developed a huge desire to just buy things at the moment - I don't know what's wrong with me! haha
When did you go home? You silly person. Everyone should stay in Leeds though I've done little enough (i.e. none) work as it is, so if everyone was here I'd have no chance!
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I came back what seems like an eternity ago, the day after we broke up. My plan was to leave Leeds so there was noone to distract me! I still haven't done much work though poo.
Shopping is fun. I still haven't started my Christmas shopping, I've been shopping but it's been all about ME. I think I know where abouts I'm heading and what to get! Any dad's ideas!?
A Old Speckled Hen ale kit... or anything real ale if he drinks it
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How rude two of my exs are also going out both slappers and they are in an open relationship together. one asked me if I would be interested in going round to theirs for a drink then the other said oh dont ask him he dosnt dooo threesums... damb right i dont and im not ashamed of it... this is why i kill most of my exs
Nic // LGBT Society Events Officer 05/06 // LGBT Assembly Chair 05/06 - NUS LGBT Society of the year 2006(winners) //
LUU honarary life member - Awarded 2006 // LGBT Assembly Mentor 2006 -Onwards.
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Mrs Doyle: I have cake!
Father Ted: No thanks, Mrs Doyle.
Mrs Doyle: Are you sure, Father? They've got cocaine in em!
Father Ted: WHAT?
Mrs Doyle: Oh, no, not cocaine. God, what am I on about. No, what d'you call them. Raisins.
Nic // LGBT Society Events Officer 05/06 // LGBT Assembly Chair 05/06 - NUS LGBT Society of the year 2006(winners) //
LUU honarary life member - Awarded 2006 // LGBT Assembly Mentor 2006 -Onwards.
Contact me at nicturner_85@hotmail.com
